5 Tips for Being More Romantic Every Day

Published: 25th February 2010
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So, she wants more romance but you're not sure what that really means. Or, perhaps she seems perfectly content with the relationship but you want to make sure that you grow closer together and she feels loved and appreciated, but you aren't quite sure how to do that. These are all very common situations for men who want to be more romantic but find it doesn't come naturally.

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So, she wants more romance but you're not sure what that really means. Or, perhaps she seems perfectly content with the relationship but you want to make sure that you grow closer together and she feels loved and appreciated, but you aren't quite sure how to do that. These are all very common situations for men who want to be more romantic but find it doesn't come naturally.

Here's the good news: it doesn't have to come naturally! You can learn how to be more romantic and totally surprise the woman you love.

The Small Things

Look for the small things you can do to make her life easier and her day more enjoyable. This should be done on a consistent basis. If she comes home from the store, get up and help her. If you want to be really romantic, have her sit down and rest while you do it yourself. Then, come back and massage her feet and shoulders for a minute.

If you know she's had a hard day, try to have dinner prepared for her or a warm bath drawn with bath oils waiting for her. It can even be something as small as going out to get the Sunday paper from the curb and having her coffee and paper ready when she gets up.

Affectionate Contact

One of the worst things a man can do is be completely hands off and unaffectionate except when he is trying to get her in bed. Don't be afraid to wrap your arms around her, give her a wink from a distance, or hold her hand. Touch the nape of her neck if her hair is pulled up or gently caress her arm at unexpected moments.

Women love to be touched in that special, subtle way that tells them you love them and want them.

Paying Attention

This one is extremely simple, but it's one many men neglect once they get comfortable in a long term relationship: pay attention when she talks! When she says something to you, turn away from the TV, computer, or cell phone and really listen to what she is saying.

Women get extremely annoyed and turned off when they feel ignored or neglected. Make it a point to listen to what she is saying and value her opinions. Women who receive this treatment tend to be more respectful and loving to their men in return.

Spontaneous Surprises

If you think being romantic requires big, grand gestures such as taking her out for elaborate upscale dinners or booking a private flight to Vegas for the weekend, think again! Very small things can come out romantic, so think spontaneously and take advantage of whatever comes your way.

For instance, when you go into a fast food restaurant to eat lunch suggest out of the blue that you eat out at a nearby park since it's so nice out. Have a blanket in your trunk ready for these moments. Continually take her by surprise using whatever circumstances come at you.

Unexpected Thrills

Some of the best bonding moments that lead to private romance start with a little friendly fright. Think of creative ways to take her out on special dates that will allow you to bond through adrenaline-rushing thrill and you will grow closer together. What about sky diving?

About Author:

Jason Vecchio owns www.romantic-inspirations.com and there regularly writes about creative romantic ideas and clever romantic gestures. Visit his site for more everyday romantic gestures

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